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The Divine Mercy Hill of El Salvador, Misamis Oriental

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A 68-foot statue of Christ ala Brazil's Rio de Janeiro towers over the Divine Mercy Hill in the town of El Salvador in the province of Misamis Oriental. Every Holy Week, devotees flock to this site, up the 70 steps of the massive statue, into the tabernacle holding the Blessed Sacrament. Completed in 2008, the view here sweeps across the Macalajar Bay where sunrise is said to be extraordinary, particularly on the next Sunday after Easter.

On this exact day, the Feast of the Divine Mercy, a phenomenon known as the Dancing Sun occurs at this very site. Thousands and thousands of people cover almost every inch of the 9-hectare grounds to witness this spectacle. It is said that at sunrise, the sun appears to sway from side to side, twinkling and giving off iridescent rays. Many swore to have seen it, even getting it on cam.
But you don't have wait for the Feast of the Divine Mercy to go to the Hill. Every day is as good a day as any for a visit. Aside from the massive statue, there's also the Divine Mercy Church which is notable for its facade featuring a crown of thorns. It holds regular masses and daily confessions and also serves as a popular venue for spiritual retreats. For reasons that I know not, weddings aren't allowed in this particular church.
divine mercy church el salvador

divine mercy hill church

Along the walk up the statue, you'll also pass by a set of drinking fountains. These are fed by a natural spring whose waters are said to have healing properties. You may wash you face or drink the waters here for free. Vendors nearby sell water containers should you wish to bring some with you.


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There is a dresscode in place here. Men and women must have their legs and arms covered. Wraps and sarongs are availabe for rent over at the entrance. Drones aren't allowed except after securing a permit from the management.

GETTING THERE
From Cagayan De Oro City, take jeep or tricycle to Gaisano Mall (Php8 to Php10, depending on what part of CDO). Asked to be dropped off to where you can ride a jeepney to Bulua Terminal. Go to Bulua Terminal and get on a jeepney bound for El Salvador (Php12). Tell the driver to drop you off at the "eskina" or crossing going up the Divine Mercy Hill. From here, hire a habal-habal to take you to the Hill. Fare is Php15.

If coming from the Laguindingan Airport, walk to the highway where you can take a jeepney to Bulua Terminal.


You may also get in touch with Earth Explorers Travel and Tours for a hassle-free tour across Misamis Oriental, Bukidnon, and the rest of Northern Mindanao.

HOLY MASS SCHEDULE
Sunday - 10AM to 11AM; 3PM to 4PM
Monday to Friday: 3:30PM to 4:30PM
Saturday - 8AM to 9AM; 4PM to 5PM

Divine Mercy Hill
El Salvador City, Misamis Oriental
Call the Office of the Mayor for inquiries 088)-555-0312


5 Reasons Why You Should Trek to Osmeña Peak

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The Philippines is full of picturesque destinations, and many of them haven’t been discovered by the many tourists that flock to the country each year. One such location is Osmeña Peak in the town of Dalaguete in the province of Cebu. It’s one of the best kept secrets of  the Central Visayas Region – a must-see for those who love absolutely gorgeous mountain views of the Philippines’ lush tropical landscape.

Unparalleled View of Cebu
Looloo Insights writes that Osmeña Peak is 1013 meters above sea level. In fact, it’s the highest point in all of Cebu. Reaching this peak gives you an unparalleled view of the region’s verdant natural landscape, including the cerulean Tañon Strait nearby along with the mountains of Negros. It’s most definitely worth the hike, which isn’t even that hard.
Chocolate Hills’ Jagged Twin
You’ve probably already also heard and seen pictures of the Chocolate Hills in Bohol; many consider Osmeña Peak and the surrounding hills as the jagged version of those world-famous hills. In fact, both are actually karst limestone formations – unique topographical mounds created by the erosion of limestone over thousands of years and the formation of top soiland vegetation. That’s the scientific version of how they were formed. But if you want, you can ask tour guides about the local myths that explain the formation of these unique geographical features. We can guarantee that the local folk stories are always more interesting than any scientific explanation.
hiking osmena peak

Great Camping Areas
Osmeña Peak is easy enough to reach that it can be done in one morning or one afternoon. However, if you’re interested in soaking in the sights, you can also choose to camp there and spend the night. Just bring your own tent and pay the small camping fees to the locals who provide assistance at the camping grounds and surrounding hills. Pinay Solo Backpacker also shares that camping at Osmeña Peak provides a great opportunity to visit nearby Kawasan Falls while taking your time to soak everything in.

Real-Life Planet Namek
90s kids will especially appreciate the sight of Osmeña Peak, especially those who love cartoons. If the mountains look somewhat familiar, it’s probably because you’ve seen the acclaimed anime, Dragonball Z. And as we’ve previously pointed out before here in Celineism, the view surrounding Osmeña Peak look a lot like a greener version of the picturesque blue green topography of Planet Namek – the home planet of Piccolo, the Nameless Namekian, Dende, and other Namekian characters in the beloved anime. So, prepare to do some high-powered fighting poses with friends once you’re at the peak. Just be careful as the many picturesque points can be slippery, especially during the rainy season.
real life planet namek

One of the Easiest Peaks to Climb in the Philippines
Despite the height of Osmeña Peak, it’s easy enough to get there compared to the Philippines’ many other rocky mountain peaks. Once you’re in Cebu, the starting point is Mantalongon Public Market, which you can get to by bus. At the market, it’s just a one-hour trek across lush vegetable farms that is as much a feast for the eyes as the stomach. Alternatively, the locals also offer motorcycle rides that can take to the very base of the mountain itself, making the hike even easier.
mountain hiking in cebu

Getting There
Getting to Cebu from Metro Manila is also very easy. Philippine Airlines schedules regular flights from Metro Manila to Cebu at different times of the day. Once you land at Cebu Airport you will be a mere stone's throw away from all the action.

Have you trekked to Osmeña Peak? How was your experience?

Christmas Morning in Borobudur

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By 3AM, we were already at the foot of the greatest Buddhist temple in the world.

It all felt so familiar. The flashlights. The steep climb up the stone steps. The thrill. Here I was again, on the age-old stones of Borobudur, waiting for sunrise– with my husband this time.

I watched as the handful of people blossomed to a veritable crowd, all tuning in to the east. Soon, there was a soft blue light that grew quickly into a glittering golden dawn. Bright and warm and beautiful.

Some experiences are worth repeating. This was one of such.

Merry Christmas.
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Cagayan de Oro Foodserye | Take a Break from City Life at High Ridge

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It had turned dark when we left the Divine Mercy Hill. Dinner was our next agenda. As we approached the city center of Cagayan de Oro, I marveled at how quickly the traffic had turned heavy. I found it amusing but only at first. As we spent more and more time stuck on the highway of the city, the more I remember how hungry I was.

THE PLACE
I steeled myself and tried to reason with my stomach as we braved the rush hour. My companions tried to laugh it out, but at some point, Potpot pulled out a pack of kiamoy, passing it around for everyone.

Eventually, the crawl of traffic transitioned to an inclining road, devoid of street lights. It reminded me of the way to the Angono-Binangonan Petroglyphs. It looked kinda dodgy. You wouldn't think a restaurant exists there.

But there was a restaurant. And it's called High Ridge. Aptly so as it sits way up a hill, overlooking all of Cagayan de Oro. Surprisingly, despite being the definition of out-of-the-way, there was a lot of diners that night.
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The place had a pleasant, sophisticated decor: a piece in the ceiling made of coconut husks, a bathroom worthy of a hotel, and an al fresco dining setup that evoked a similar vibe as Antipolo's Cloud 9. The air here was chilly. The city looked beautiful from here. Its light twinkling. No sign of heavy traffic.
high ridge cagayan restaurant

high ridge restaurant cagayan de oro

Related Adventure: Where to Eat in Coron

THE FOOD
Our tour provider Earth Explorers ordered a full spread that included a Seafood Platter (Seaweed salad, Kinilaw, Grilled Kitong, Grilled Squid, and Grilled Shrimp; Php1799) and plates and plates of white rice (Php25/serving). Since I was allergic to any seafood, except fish (which was just as well since I'm a pesco-vegetarian), I was only able to taste the grilled kitong. It was OK, tasted like fish.


high ridge cagayan menu

Obviously, I was still hungry so I got an order of fresh potato fries (Php99) and a bowl of Caesar salad (Php169) (ah, the woes of pesco-vegetarians/vegetarians/vegans). By the time the fries were all consumed, I tried to order another, but I was told it had ran out. I ordered another salad instead. I loved the fries – you really can't go wrong with fries. The salad was so-so.

THE SERVICE
Earth Explorers had the prescience to pre-order our meals so the waiting time was halved. My follow-up orders of salad and fries, as well as our drinks, came in in a reasonable amount of time.

The staff are courteous and I loved that our pitchers of water are refilled quickly. Also, entrance to the place is Php100 which is consumable on food and drinks.

The selling point of this place is the great view and the balmy atmosphere. Like any "overlooking" restaurant, the best time to go here is at night.

Related Adventure: Where to Eat in Antipolo

BOTTOMLINE
Getting to High Ridge might not be as easy as boarding a jeepney, but judging from the number of diners that night, the place is popular and people don't mind going out of their way to get here.

Or maybe the people who dine here all have their own cars.

Nevertheless, if you want an escape from the fast-paced city life in Cagayan de Oro, go have dinner at High Ridge.

GETTING THERE
Turns out, there's a free shuttle to High Ridge at the covered court at Brgy. Macasandig, in front of Corpus Christi School. See the schedule below.
high ridge cagayan de oro shuttle schedule
Photo courtesy of CDODev.com

You may also get in touch with Earth Explorers Travel and Tours for a hassle-free tour across Misamis Oriental, Bukidnon, and the rest of Northern Mindanao.

OTHER DETAILS
Modes of Payment: Cash
Wi-Fi: Yes
Parking: Yes

High Ridge
Macasandig, Cagayan de Oro
Open daily from 4PM to 12AM
+63 943 708 5492


Cagayan de Oro Accommodations | For Business or Leisure at Mallberry Suites Business Hotel

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Full but still tired from all the commute, I couldn't wait to get to our hotel. On our way back from High Ridge, we made a pitstop at a roadside fruit vendor (which was already closed, but we begged to be let in) to get some durian. I wasn't too enthused about it to be honest, but I still enjoyed the communal durian-feasting. We drank Coke after – to burp the icky smell of durian away – and since I was still hungry, I bought some bread from the bakery across the street.

In any case, after our evening dessert, we finally made our way to our hotel.

THE PLACE
Located at the heart of Cagayan De Oro, Mallbery Suites Business Hotel has a strategic location that allows access to key establishments. It's literally just a few steps away from Robinsons. There are a number of hangout spots all around.


THE ROOM
I had an Executive Deluxe Room which I shared with Claire. It had a king bed, and a single bed. Claire let me have the king bed since she had commandeered the desk. The room also had a cable TV, a shower, and a dresser.
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It had a large window covered with heavy drapes, but there wasn't much of a view. It only looked into the streets. The room was also large enough for me to do my workout. The only downside is that WiFi gets iffy once here – I had to stand by the door to get good reception.


THE AMENITIES
Mallbery Suites has conference rooms, a pool, and a gym. It also has an in-house restaurant and a cafe. It has WiFi but the connection's erratic inside our room. It's reliable on the lobby though.

THE SERVICE
My main issue with Mallberry is the loooong waiting time during check-in. It took us a while to get to our rooms even though we had reservations. They had computers, but by the way the lines forms at the front desk, they proved to be not much help.


BOTTOMLINE
Aside from the ridiculously long time to check-in, and the funky room WiFi connection, I like Mallberty. The rooms are nice. I loved that there's a cafe and a gym. And, because of its location, it's the perfect homebase when you have some business (or leisure) in the city.

Mallbery Suites Business Hotel
Osmena St, Cagayan de Oro, Misamis Oriental
+63 88 854 1999


5 Reasons Why You Should Trek to Osmeña Peak

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The Philippines is full of picturesque destinations, and many of them haven’t been discovered by the many tourists that flock to the country each year. One such location is Osmeña Peak in the town of Dalaguete in the province of Cebu. It’s one of the best kept secrets of  the Central Visayas Region – a must-see for those who love absolutely gorgeous mountain views of the Philippines’ lush tropical landscape.

Unparalleled View of Cebu
Looloo Insights writes that Osmeña Peak is 1013 meters above sea level. In fact, it’s the highest point in all of Cebu. Reaching this peak gives you an unparalleled view of the region’s verdant natural landscape, including the cerulean Tañon Strait nearby along with the mountains of Negros. It’s most definitely worth the hike, which isn’t even that hard.
Chocolate Hills’ Jagged Twin
You’ve probably already also heard and seen pictures of the Chocolate Hills in Bohol; many consider Osmeña Peak and the surrounding hills as the jagged version of those world-famous hills. In fact, both are actually karst limestone formations – unique topographical mounds created by the erosion of limestone over thousands of years and the formation of top soiland vegetation. That’s the scientific version of how they were formed. But if you want, you can ask tour guides about the local myths that explain the formation of these unique geographical features. We can guarantee that the local folk stories are always more interesting than any scientific explanation.
hiking osmena peak

Great Camping Areas
Osmeña Peak is easy enough to reach that it can be done in one morning or one afternoon. However, if you’re interested in soaking in the sights, you can also choose to camp there and spend the night. Just bring your own tent and pay the small camping fees to the locals who provide assistance at the camping grounds and surrounding hills. Pinay Solo Backpacker also shares that camping at Osmeña Peak provides a great opportunity to visit nearby Kawasan Falls while taking your time to soak everything in.

Real-Life Planet Namek
90s kids will especially appreciate the sight of Osmeña Peak, especially those who love cartoons. If the mountains look somewhat familiar, it’s probably because you’ve seen the acclaimed anime, Dragonball Z. And as we’ve previously pointed out before here in Celineism, the view surrounding Osmeña Peak look a lot like a greener version of the picturesque blue green topography of Planet Namek – the home planet of Piccolo, the Nameless Namekian, Dende, and other Namekian characters in the beloved anime. So, prepare to do some high-powered fighting poses with friends once you’re at the peak. Just be careful as the many picturesque points can be slippery, especially during the rainy season.
real life planet namek

One of the Easiest Peaks to Climb in the Philippines
Despite the height of Osmeña Peak, it’s easy enough to get there compared to the Philippines’ many other rocky mountain peaks. Once you’re in Cebu, the starting point is Mantalongon Public Market, which you can get to by bus. At the market, it’s just a one-hour trek across lush vegetable farms that is as much a feast for the eyes as the stomach. Alternatively, the locals also offer motorcycle rides that can take to the very base of the mountain itself, making the hike even easier.
mountain hiking in cebu

Getting There
Getting to Cebu from Metro Manila is also very easy. Philippine Airlines schedules regular flights from Metro Manila to Cebu at different times of the day. Once you land at Cebu Airport you will be a mere stone's throw away from all the action.

Have you trekked to Osmeña Peak? How was your experience?

On Mothers and Giving Back

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My adventures started with an end. In order to find healing from my mother's death, I began traveling. I've written about this source of both grief and hope many times, and while this loss continues to propel me into motion, I still can't help but feel envious. Of what? Well...

Perhaps one of my greatest regrets is not being able to bring my Mama with me in my adventures. While mountains might not be her cup of tea, I'm pretty sure she would've loved staying in resortsand fancy hotels. I would've loved to take her to Saigon, to have hertaste the food I'm so obsessed with. I would've brought her with me to Catanduanes, a place not too far from her roots – she would've felt right at home there. 

More than her death, what saddens me is the unrealized possibilities. So I urge everyone to travel with your mothers – your parents – at least once. Let them share the joy of seeing a place for the first time. Let them experience being transformed by kind encounters on the road. Let them understand why you oh so love to travel

One might also say that travel can be a form of giving back. Our parents might have a dream destination, somewhere they've been wanting to go, but haven't had the time or the means to actually go. Perhaps they'd put it aside because they chose to raise us.

In this heartfelt video by AirAsia entitled "Magnet", watch how a son repays the sacrifices of his mother with the gift of travel.

World-Class Waterfun at Seven Seas

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Storytime is a series of  stories about my most memorable travel experiences. Read more here.

I was wearing a bikini top the whole time but my companions only took notice when I pulled my pants down.

"I thought that was a crop-top,"Marky admitted.

Couldn't really blame them. Most of my normal clothes look like a bikini top. In the words of my friend Isa: the world shall know my pusod.

I digress.

On our way to Ozamiz City, we made a sidetrip to the city of Opal in Misamis Oriental. We were to visit Seven Seas Waterpark.

Our itinerary only actually said "quick tour", but the night before, we made our intentions of swimming clear as day. We'd been allowed to do so under the condition that we'd do it under an hour.

Fine.

With that in mind, upon arriving to the waterpark, I managed to take a few admittedly crappy photos. Fearing we'd run out of time, I declared those would have to suffice. I then urged my friends Marky and Edgar to drop what they were doing and proceed to swimming. We went straight to an umbrella-d table, dumped our bags, and got into our swimwear. In my case, I just took my pants off.


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We left our things in the care of Bojo, who didn't bring any swimwear bless his heart. When we were all settled, off we went to make the most of Seven Seas.

To say that I was thrilled is an understatement. I'd recently discovered, during my 3-day stay at Resorts World Sentosa, that I'm a huge fan of waterparks. I enjoy the exhilarating rush of hurtinge towards a pool of chlorinated water – makes me feel like a kid again.

Seven Seas looked really great. I'm glad to find a waterpark this size and this quality in this side of the country. Owned by Mr. Elipidio "Elpie" Paras – the same man behind Dahilayan Adventure Park in Bukidnon – the waterpark is the first one in Northern Mindanao.
misamis oriental waterpark

In any event, the three of us decided to go try the slides. There were lots of them! Buccaneer Bay, Cutlass and Cannon Ball Run Rides, Riptide Reef, and Pacific Racer are some of the milder ones. Pira-chute, a long, open slide with a double rotation, is one of the more intense.

The most intense is perhaps the Plank Drop Slide where you enter a tube, wait for a countdown for the platform below you to drop, and then you fall down the waterslide. We didn't try this. We almost did, but when I saw that I could get stuck somewhere in the middle (because of lack of momentum), I backed out and decided to go on the Cyclone instead. My companions were more than happy to oblige.
waterpark in misamis oriental

The Cyclone was my favorite. This was the largest slide in the park. It looks like a huge funnel and you ride it on an inflatable raft with three others. You then go swinging side to side, hoping you don't go all the way around (although that sounds fun to be honest).
seven seas waterpark slides
Photo courtesy of Potpot of Travel Trilogy

If you're not into slides, you could just go up the Jolly Roger Tower where you can get a 360-degree vantage of the entire waterpark. You could also grab a lifebuoy and laze across the 500-meter long Mighty Maui River. Of course, there are also the swimming pools.

We were having such a great time that when we were told it was time to leave, I made like a brat and yelled, "Five more minutes!" Although we did go straight to the shower rooms right after.

As I changed into dry clothes, I made a mental note to check for the cheapest flights to this city. I must come back to Seven Seas and make the most of it.
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Photo courtesy of Edgar of Eazy Traveler

RATES
Unlimited Rides - Weekdays (Mondays to Thursdays)
Adult - Php799
Kids (3 ft up to 4 ft) - Php499
Kids (Below 3 ft) - FREE
Senior Citizens / PWDs - Php639

Unlimited Rides - Weekends (Fridays to Sundays)
Adult - Php999
Kids (3 ft to 4 ft) - Php599
Kids (Below 3 ft) - FREE
Senior Citizens / PWDs - Php799

Cabana Rates
Beach Gazebo - Php900, good for 12 pax
Privateer - Php700, good for 10 pax
Islander Hut - Php600, good for 6-8 pax

GETTING THERE
Seven Seas is about 30 to 45 minutes travel from Laguindingan Airport. You may get on a bus bound for Iligan at the Bulua West Bound Terminal and get off at the Bulua crossing (landmark is Rose Pharmacy). From here, you can hire a habal-habal to take you to Seven Seas.

Alternatively, from Cagayan de Oro city center, ride a jeepney to Gaisano Mall. Here, get on a jeepney bound for Opol. Ask the driver to drop you somewhere you can a ride to "Iponan-Bulua-Patag". It's usually multicabs that ply this route. Once you get a ride, alight at the Bulua crossing and hire a habal-habal to take you to Seven Seas.

Flights to Cagayan de Oro are some of the cheapest flights and are widely available in many carriers. Furthermore, you may also get in touch with Earth Explorers Travel and Tours for a hassle-free tour across Misamis Oriental, Bukidnon, and the rest of Northern Mindanao.

TIPS AND REMINDERS
- Follow the dress code.
seven seas cagayan dress code

- Action cams are not allowed when going on the slides.
- Outside food is not allowed. There is a restaurant inside the resort serving food like burgers and fries.
- Pets are not allowed.
- Lockers are available for rent for your valuables.
-You may send your group bookings on email or on Facebook.
- As of now, there are no overnight accommodations inside the park, but construction is on-going. In the meantime, you may check out Mallberry Suites Business Hotel in CDO.

Seven Seas Waterpark
Zone 1 Road, Opol, Misamis Oriental
+63 998 822 1956
Open daily from 9AM to 5PM
sevenseaswaterparkreservations@gmail.com


A Foray into the Monastery of the Transfiguration

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"Isn't that a subject in Hogwarts?" I asked.

Potpot, one of my companions, blinked. He proceeded to face the car window, ignoring me.

In the passenger seat, I heard Edgar snicker.

"Right?"I insisted, tapping Edgar in the shoulder for support.
"Subject in Hogwarts," he repeated in between laughs.

We were talking about the Monastery of the Transfiguration. It was our next stop. I was curious what "transfiguration" referred to. I imagined a castle with monks waving wands, counting 1,2,3, and murmuring Vera Verto.

I didn't think the monks would appreciate that image. But hey, I only ever knew that word from Harry Potter, as a subject taught by Professor McGonagall.
At any rate, we were on our way there. I was too lazy to get my phone and Google what it meant. Plus, I preferred to have an actual conversation.

"No, really. What does it mean?"

"I don't get your Harry Potter references," Potpot said pointedly, facing me. "It's when Jesus transformed."

"Into what?" I demanded. "Ostia?"

I wasn't making a joke but my companions bursted out laughing. Even Marky, who rarely made a sound, I could hear giggling beside me.

Listen, I'm technically Catholic, but I consider myself a theist. I do believe that religion is just a way to secretly control the masses, but it doesn't mean that God doesn't love me. Also, last time I read the Bible was in third grade – the story was quite forgettable if you ask me. What I knew about Catholicism, I got mostly from Dan Brown, and you know how reliable Robert Langdon is.



I totally understand if you'd yelled or will yell "sacrilege!" or "blasphemy!" or even "susmaryosep!" some time in reading this story. To be fair, I make all kinds of inappropriate statements regarding religion, race, and political inclinations. I do have my fair share of stupidly and fiercely oblivious moments.

In any event, still had no idea what transfiguration meant, we arrived in the village of San Jose, on a hill with the looming form of Mt. Kitanglad in the distance. Banks of clouds concealed the top half of the mountain, leaving it looking like a low and long plateau. We parked just below a structure that looked as out of place as my altar bread comment.

A dark pyramid glinted like ebony in the sun. It stood in the middle of an expanse of grassland, hemmed by a covey of shrubs and trees. OK, I thought. Maybe my magician theory wasn't too far out.
monastery of transfiguration church

We entered the structure. The ceiling, paneled with brown wood, tapered into an upturned cone. Wooden chairs lined most of the space, marching into three of four directions. In that one where they stopped, there was a boulder with what looked like a microphone stand jutting out from behind like an antenna. A glass-encased statue smiled kindly on us overhead. And just above it was a crucifix.


It dawned on me: this is a church. A peculiar one, but a church nonetheless.
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monastery of transfiguraiton altar

It was designed by no other than National Artist for Architecture Leandro Locsin. He may not have witnessed its completion but its plans were the last one he signed before he died. It is largely considered as his Magnum Opus. I, for one, loved how airy and bright it was. A bit more casual than your typical Catholic Church. It reminded me of the church in Regina Rica in Tanay.

I wanted to stay in it, but not because I was moved into praying but because it was so hot outside. The sun was blaring mightily and I didn't want to be in its way. As I feared, however, we were ushered outside. I resorted to dragging my feet and followed my companions.

We were then taken to the retreat house and were served coffee. Aside from the unorthodox church, the monastery is also famous for its Monk's Blend– a coffee made from beans grown here. And speaking of retreat, people are allowed to spend time here, to reflect perhaps and not watch/read too much about wizards, for a minimal fee.
monastery of the transfiguration retreat house

After the quick snack, we proceeded to the two-story museum. A square building, it displays artworks of local artists – most of them for sale – in the ground floor, and  houses an exhibit of Filipino Liturgical Vestments on the second. The latter was a project of couturier-turned-monk Dom Martin aka Gang Gomez for the Philippine Centennial, showcasing the various weaving techniques from all over the country. Nearby, meanwhile, is a souvenir shop which sells local delicacies and handmade trinkets.
monastery of the transfiguration bukidnon museum

We headed back to the van after the museum tour. As I walked, I imagined myself renting a room here, perhaps roaming the grounds at night to stare at the stars. I could drink coffee with the monk and pray with them. Maybe ask them about the Transfiguration, if their goblets were former rats.

I decided I'd just Google it.

I like neither coffee nor prayers.


GETTING THERE
From the Laguindingan Airport, get on a bus to Malaybalay. From the terminal, hire a tricycle to take you to the Monastery.

You may also get in touch with Earth Explorers Travel and Tours for a hassle-free tour across Misamis Oriental, Bukidnon, and the rest of Northern Mindanao.

REMINDERS
Bear in mind that, notwithstanding my irreverence, the place is a holy place. Please come dressed acceptably. Meaning, no tank tops, tubes, short shorts, and miniskirts. Come here dressed as you would when going to church.

The pyramid church also holds regular mass. Contact the numbers below for the schedule.

Monastery of the Transfiguration
San Jose, Malaybalay City, Bukidnon
Tel. No. +63 88 221 2373 / 221 4708
Monastery Farm: +63 927 397 5350
Gift Shop: +63 915 986 0167
Guest House Reservations: +63 917 510 5585
Wedding Reservations:+63 915 986 0167
Breakfast with the Monks: +63 916 454 5916
Vocation Inquiries: +63 916 365 0147


IN PHOTOS: The 2018 Kaamulan Festival of Bukidnon

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Bukidnon's Kaamulan Festival began in the 70s when local leaders decided it was high time they put a spotlight on the province’s indigenous heritage. Its goal is mainly to bring together the seven original inhabitants of the province: the Bukidnon, Higaonon, Talaandig, Manobo, Matigsalug, Tigwahanon and Umayamnon.

Over the years, the festival had earned praises for being the "most authentic" and only truly ethnic festival in the country.

From the Binukid word “amul” which means “to gather”, the festival is held usually throughout the month of March, culminating into the highly anticipated Civic Parade. Around half of Bukidnon's 20 municipalities and 2 component cities participate every year.



The night before the main event, a cultural showcase called Piniliyapan is held. This year, it included a dramatization of a portion of the epic Ulaging, with the Kalayag choir accompanying the story. 
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bukidnon epic ulaging

piniliyapan choir

Tribes also performed a traditional chant, and at the end of the night, performers and audience gathered to partake in an indigenous dance party.
piniliyapan bukidnon performances

bukidnon kaamulan eve

kaamulan indigenous festival

At the Civic Parade, the routines are derived from actual rituals. Anyone was welcome to perform – young and old, even non-indigenous folks – but they must seek permission from the elders. Even the choreographers are required to show the routine prior for approval.

Related Adventure: Angono's Higantes Festival

The performances usually tell of the tribes’ creation myths and age-old legends. There is the tale of how a giant banog (Philippine hawk) who, with the help of baylans (healers), revived a datu's (chieftain) heir after being bitten by a bunsalagan (lake spirit).
kaamulan festival

kaamulan festival routines

Laaw– a towering dark spirit that gives favor to the people – was featured on another performance.

Animals sacred to the tribes are also incorporated to the dances. Movements that mimic horses, monkeys, and birds can be recognized in the routines.

Prominent also are social interactions like courtships, weddings, and coronations.
kaamulan festival bukidnon


Daily life like fishing, planting and harvesting are also common themes.
kaamulan festival bukidnon

indigenous philippine festival

kaamulan festival dance routines

best philippine festivals

kaamulan festival stilt performer

kaamulan festival dance rituals

There are the war dances, too, that proudly showcase the fierceness of the tribesmen.
2018 kaamulan festival war routines

bukidnon war dances

The performances alone are enough to amaze, but once you know the story behind the festival, the experience becomes twice as incredible.

What's your favorite Filipino festival?

Bukidnon Foodserye | Filipino-French Fusion at Eiffel Kubo

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eiffel kubo menu

I must admit, I was quite relieved that I didn't get zapped by lightning or swallowed by the ground after my blasphemous comments (and thoughts) about the Monastery of the Transfiguration. But I guess I was inflicted with another kind of punishment: Hunger.

It was past noon and we hadn't had lunch. We'd been on the road for most of the morning, traveling from Cagayan De Oro to Bukidnon. Finally, we arrived in the latter's city center of Malaybalay.

THE PLACE
A miniature replica of the Eiffel Tower sprung into view as our van veered right from the main highway. It stood in front of a small structure with adorned with thatched fronds. Tables dotted one side of the road while a parking space was on the other.
where to eat in bukidnon

Inside, high rectangular tables with matching high chairs lined the room. It looked like a Spanish-era house with its walls of polished wood.
eiffel kubo bukidnon

Eiffel Kubo was founded by a group of people who loved food, arts, and positive change. While most of them are Filipino, one was French.



William, the resident Frenchman, was inspired by Jose Rizal, particularly by his writings and ideas in La Liga Filipina. Eiffel Kubo was established to help bring a source of livelihood to the people of Mindanao, to aveliate poverty and be a home for the arts.

Eiffel Kubo feels and looks mostly Filipino, but there are subtle touches that tell of William's heritage: tiny metal Eiffel Tower pendants, steel accents on the wooden tables, and the smattering of wine glasses.
best bukidnon restaurants


THE FOOD
The French influence is more present in the food. We dined twice here, one for dinner and for lunch. From the array of dishes, one could easily detect the combined influences.

We were served Red Petit Calamari (Php245). These are deep-fried calamari with herbs and a lemon zest, laid out on a bed of seaweed. You remember I am allergic to seafood, so I did not get to try this. My companions were scrambling for it though, so I guess it was good.
eiffel kubo menu

My favorite was the Taguige Ratatouille (Php295). It's got loads of vegetables and is served with sliced herbed mackerel. I love the flavors of the peppers, made it taste like pizza.
eiffel kubo ratatouille

There's also the Parisian Humba (Php245) with a surprise hint of cinnamon, and the Beef Burgundy (Php290).
The main event was Chef Olyver's Grand Steak (Php845)– 400 grams of grilled chuck-eye beef served with fresh potato fries.
eiffel kubo menu price

Since I don't eat meat, I tackled the fries and proceeded to order heaps of Moulin Rouge French Fries (Php175). I must say, it's perhaps one of the best fries I've had! The house dip went well with the potatoes.

We were also served Manok Au Vin (Php325) which is Bisayang manok simmered in red wine and cognac with mushrooms, thyme, and Java mint. Kinilaw (Php275) also graced our table, spiced with the tabon-tabon fruit.
tabon-tabon kinilaw

For dessert, we had a Classic French Flan (Php170), infused with the local flavors of dayap and pandan. There's also Chef James Brulee (Php175) which had slices of muscovado-marinated buko. 
eiffel kubo desserts

eiffel kubo meryenda menu

We also got to try a duo of souffles: Bibingka Delight Souffle (Php175) and Pure Choco Souffle (Php165). The former is a fusion of the native kakanin and the classic French dessert, complete with a bed of salted eggs! The latter, meanwhile, is made of dark chocolate – tasted like a fluffy sikwate!
eiffel kubo meryendelights

Take note that the restaurant has a 10% service charge.

THE SERVICE
In addition to serving a menu of elegant and tasty dishes, Eiffel Kubo also offers a venue for meetings and events. Downstairs, there's a spacious conference room. There's also a garden-type space in the backyard.
events place bukidnon

bukidnon events place

bukidnon meeting venue
  
There are also homestays for as low as Php300/night. Add Php155 and you'll get a sumptuous and hearty breakfast.
homestays in malaybalay

Workshops and skills training, like baking and cooking, regularly take place here. There are also art exhibits, recently featuring soil paintings from Talaandig artists.
eiffel kubo exhibits

For room rates, check out Eiffel Kubo's website.

Related Adventure: Where to Stay in Cagayan de Oro

BOTTOMLINE
If you're traveling to Northern Mindanao, Eiffel Kubo is a great place to get some good grub. It's also a good headquarters during Kaamulan. The rooms are nice and inexpensive. And the location's pretty strategic, too. It's walking distance from the Kaamulan grounds.

OTHER DETAILS
WiFi: Yes
Modest of Payment: Cash, Credit Cards
Parking: Yes

Eiffel Kubo
Ramos Compound, Claro Recto, Malaybalay City, Bukidnon
Globe – +63 977 636 7619
Smart – +63 929 714 9849
Opening Tuesdays to Sundays for:
Lunch: 11:00 AM – 2:30 PM
MerienDelight: 2:30 PM – 5:30 PM
Dinner: 5:30 PM – 9:30 PM
Closed on Mondays
eiffelkubo@gmail.com


Poetry, Songs, and the Eleven Islands

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onse islas zamboanga city
(Photo courtesy of Kat of Tara Let's Anywhere, sorry I had to cut out your watermark. Please forgive me. Labyu!)

Storytime is a series of  stories about my most memorable travel experiences. Read more here.

“If you were the sea,” I muttered, almost absentmindedly, as I slid off the prow of the pump boat, onto the island called Bisaya-Bisaya.

That morning in early October was like a borrowed summer day: the sun out; the sky a cloudless, faultless blue. As soon as the engine sputtered to a halt, the lull of waves and sea breeze took to playing in the background. I shielded my eyes, not from the sun, but from the sparkling, powdery shore that stretched on either side of where I stood – so white and reflective it was hard to look at without squinting. I then ambled to my companions who were heading toward the grove of coconut trees, away from the harsh mid-morning glare. Just before the trees began were masts of colorful vinta sails – a reminder that we were, indeed, still in the vibrant city of Zamboanga. We then found an array of wooden cottages, on which we deposited our things. Rid of bags, I turned on my heel and finally faced the sea.

A sheet of blues and greens glimmered before me, as if winking, teasing me to come near. It was so immense, punctuated here and there with a smattering of craggy islets.

I didn’t realize I was holding my breath.

“I would be a ripple in your waters,” I sighed, finishing the first line of an ode I wrote years ago.

This was just one of the eleven islands that make up Onse Islas, and here I was, already reciting poetry.

THE ROAD LESS TAKEN
I really shouldn’t have been surprised in retrospect. Opened for tourism just last July, this cluster of mostly uninhabited islands had yet to suffer the brunt of human presence and, thus, is relatively rawer and more pristine compared to the country’s more known destinations. It offered a scene so rich with natural beauty that one couldn't help but be inspired.
white sand beach in zamboanga city

Conversely, what surprised me even more – pleasantly, one should note –  than my sudden poetic turn was how the local government handled, and is handling, everything. From the moment intrepid wanderers had “discovered” the islands, brandishing their find on social media, things had been bound to get complicated. The secret was out, and Zamboanga City had to make a choice: the usual and oft disastrous path of “let’s take it as it comes” or the less trodden albeit preferable road of “let’s take a moment and think this through.”

Evidently, the city took the latter. Over a year prior to officially opening it for tourism, the islands had been temporarily cordoned off to allow surrounding communities, specifically the villages of Panubigan and Dita, to prepare. Frontliners like local guides and boatmen had been trained and organized. Regulations had been set in place not just to maintain peace and order but to ensure that the islands would not succumb to the same fate as most tourist destinations. These include a by-reservation-only policy, mandatory pre-tour briefing, no-guide/no-tour order, a carrying capacity – the maximum number of tourists allowed per day – of 200 guests, and, perhaps most importantly, the decision to highlight the culture of the Sama Banguingui– a Moro ethnolinguistic group that resides, among other places, in the vicinity of Onse Islas. This last provision had warranted the inclusion of rules like discouraging bringing and cooking of pork in the islands as well as not accepting guests during Fridays.

Fortunately for me, it wasn’t a Friday, and I no longer care for pork (I can’t believe it either, shut up).

A SHARE OF THE CATCH
Huraida, one of the local guides who accompanied us on this visit was of the Sama Banguingui. That day, she was wearing a coral pink gossamer hijab, and a matching shirt over which she wore a navy blue cardigan. Slender and agile, she shepherded us not towards the inviting water but across the wave-cut platforms on one side of Bisaya-Bisaya. We walked along sea cliffs peppered with holes and gaps. On rutted coastal benches, we stepped gingerly; the percussion of hitting waves making us occasionally jump. Here, the gradient of teal and cerulean was even more pronounced, and, more than ever, I wanted to be a ripple in the water.
beaches in zamboanga

To prevent myself from prematurely hurtling into the sea, or launching into another poetic episode (not that there’s anything wrong with either), I asked Huraida about the island’s name.
onse islas tour guide
Screenshot from Isa Does Once Islas Vlog

“There were fishermen,” she said, smiling, as we made our way back to the sandy shore.

“Each wanted to have their own designated fishing ground. They got into arguments and when they finally settled, the fisherman who got to fish in this side was a Bisaya. So: Bisaya-Bisaya.

“Because of that incident,” she added. “Bisaya-Bisaya also came to mean ‘kanya-kanya’ (to separate).”

I nodded.

Perhaps because of trudging under the near-noon sun, after that conversation, a sudden hunger pang took hold of me. Good thing that fresh buko and boiled yellow corn awaited us on our return to the cottages. I munched on two cobs and, upon the goading of Glen and Isa, slid another one in my bag – just in case. After we finished our snacks, Kara complained of a headache resulting into Glen passing her a menthol balm that reminded me of grandmothers (#aysorry). Meanwhile, the rest of my companions went in the water. I, on the other hand, found myself in a discussion with Errold about the zero-waste lifestyle. As we watched the others wade and kayak (yes, there were kayaks), we got into the pros and cons of bamboo and metal straws – we are intellectuals that way. By the time we were done and I decided I’d join in on the waterfun, it was announced we’ll be heading to another island.

I groaned, but grabbed my things nonetheless.

Halfway through the shore, however, Errold decided we had time to see the nearby natural pool– apparently just a short walk from where we were. And so off we went.

We found ourselves standing before another sea cliff in just a few minutes. At its foot, set amidst a wave-cut platform, was a basin of crystalline water. A natural infinity pool, it looked like candy, good enough to eat. When Potpot ordered us to get in for a drone shot, I immediately pulled my pants off (as one does) and obliged.
once islas zamboanga
Photo courtesy of Glen of Escape Manila

OF AMALGAMS AND HEARTBREAKS
Next thing I knew, we were on the boat again, cleaving through the shimmering sapphire sheet. We passed by the island of Buh-Buh, one of the few inhabited islands of Onse Islas, distinguishable by the mosque a few steps from its shores.
eleven islands of onse islas

We docked in Sirommon a little later, and here, I resolved to get in the water, but was told we needed to first go on a trek towards our lunch. Talk about Cariño Brutal. Shrugging, I dashed towards Huraida who was waiting by the trailhead. The path, thankfully, was short and gentle albeit brimming with amor seco. It led us to the other side of the island where a long table was set up; the smell of cooking mingling with the scent of brine. I glanced at the table and gasped in delight: there were lanzones.

I grabbed a handful and skulked at the nearby wooden gazebo. I must’ve looked like Mundungus Fletcher taking stock of his pilfered things. But I was happy – I’ve been bugging Errold for some lanzones.

Not long after, I was joined by Ace and Mike. And here we discussed mushroom burgers, where I get my protein, Delicas, and how to go about our vagabonding ways. Isa arrived shortly, clutching her own bunch of lanzones which she shared with me. Good friends, see.

Our lunch was served in no time. A spread of seafood – fish, squid, crab, and clams – graced the wooden tabletop. It looked really delicious and I was sincerely happy for my companions. I, meanwhile, settled on some seaweed, the spare corn from earlier, and a hefty serving of rice – all doused in that magical mixture of soy sauce and dayap (local lime).

After another helping of lanzones, I rushed back to the side we came, determined to soak in some sea. On the way down the trail, I recalled Huraida’s story about how Sirommon got its name.

There was once a foreigner named Oster (?) who found himself in the island’s shores. He happened upon a group of local fishermen whom he proceeded to ask what the place was called. Unfamiliar with his language, the men thought he was asking what they were doing, so they motioned to the expanse before them, and Oster went, “Oh, the sea.” Unsatisfied, he pressed on and the fishermen supposed he was looking for a place to stay, so they led him inside a small hut, and Oster went “OK. Room.” Dusk came, soon followed by darkness, and still curious about the island’s name, he approached the men and asked again. It was dark in the island, for there was neither flame nor bulb, so the fishermen believed he was asking for light.  They pointed at the great big silver orb above, and Oster went, “Sure, the moon.” With only those three words to go on, he decided to compound them: Searoommoon. This evolved through the years and eventually became the more local-sounding Sirommon.

The locals took kindly to this baptism and welcomed Oster to their folds. Soon, he grew close to a village woman and they both fell in love. Marriage was in the talks, but, for some reason that was not clear to me, Oster had to leave. And so the woman waited and waited, every day, by the shores of Sirommon. She started bringing an empty washbasin, beating it with her hands like a signal drum, perhaps hoping that the sound would carry to Oster and lead him back to her.

HERE COME THE WORDS
I wasn’t sure how to feel about this story. It makes for a good, fascinating tale, no doubt; but it irked me a bit to know that yet another foreigner got to name a place – a beautiful one, I must add – in my country, and then went on to leave a broken heart in his wake.

At any rate, I put on some reef-friendly sunscreen then grabbed my camera. Striding past the cottages and the vinta sails like the ones in Bisaya-Bisaya, I noticed that wispy clouds now swirled in the vault of blue, as if an artist had decided to stroke in some white paint on what once was nothing but an azure canvas. Underneath it, the sparkling sands and the clear waters were put in sharper relief.  A sandbar stood out of the cobalt and teal, snaking its way to the horizon.
sandbar in mindanao
Photo courtesy of Glen of Escape Manila

I hang back to take it all in, and, perhaps prompted by the village woman’s heartbreak, the words came rushing unbidden:

If you were the Sea,
I would be a ripple in your waters.
It matters not how impermanent,
How ephemeral,
For one brief moment of Oneness
With your mysteries would suffice
Than if you were the Sea,
And I were the Sky;
Infinite, yes, but never truly one –
Forever parallel.

I smiled in spite of myself. It’s been a long time since words sprung up to me like that, as easily as breathing. They weren’t impromptu, mind you  – I wrote them six, eight years ago – but they were a comfort regardless. For in the last six months, I thought my relationship with words had forever ended. I thought I’d put it down, never to be picked up again. And yet here we were. Back. And I couldn’t ask for a more fitting welcome.

The sight of Kara’s head, bobbing a couple of meters away, brought me out of my reverie. Somehow, I was now on the sandbar.

“How’s the water?” I called to Kara.

“Very warm,” she replied, an amused expression on her face.

I snorted. 

I paused to look around and saw peach and orange seastars scattered along the banks. A bit farther, Ace and Potpot were wading near the shoal. Glen appeared before long, and, like me, was fiddling with his camera. 

A little later, Isa, Christian, Mike, and Kat joined us; Princess and Phil happily snapping photos not too far. In the next hour, I would be going up the island of Baung-Baung before taking a final dip in its cooler waters, but those few minutes in the sandbar were my favorite. Just before the tides rose, returning this strip of sand underneath, we made the most of the warm waters of Sirommon; taking in the scene, enjoying each other’s company. And in the midst of this all, as if to emphasize the beauty of the moment, Geowulf’s Saltwater played softly in my head:

Come to the ocean
Even when you’re broken.

Onse Islas Travel Guide

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diy guide to onse islas

I already wrote about my recent visit to these islands in this comeback narrative (that’s over 2,000 words long but I’m so proud of it so I hope you could read it), but here are the essentials you need to know should you wish to see and experience these islands for yourself.

But before we proceed, please have a look at the Leave No Trace Principles:


ABOUT ONSE ISLAS
Onse Islas is a string of eleven islands split between Brgys. Panubigan and Dita in Zamboanga City. Three are in Brgy. Dita (Lampingin, Sirommon, and Panganak), and the rest are in Panubigan. These remote villages are mostly inhabited by the Sama Banguingui – a Moro ethnolinguistic group. Assisted by the local government and various tour operators, they manage the eleven islands.

The official jump-off is in Brgy. Panubigan – which means “source of water” in the local Tausug tongue. It is about 40 kilometers away from the city proper. This village is by the sea and you’ll see stilt houses lining the way to the port. Bunches of agar-agar or seaweed can be seen strewn along the streets to dry. Here, visitors are received and taken to a briefing before proceeding to the tour.
stitled houses panubigan

agal-agal zamboanga

As of October 2018, four of the eleven islands have been deemed ready to receive guests. These are Bisaya-Bisaya, Baung-Baung, Buh-buh, and Sirommon.


BISAYA-BISAYA
Aside from the sparkling white-sand shore, the island of Bisaya-Bisaya plays host to a slew of geological wonders, from honeycombed cliffs and rutted wave-cut platforms to a natural infinity pool. The island is also ideal for snorkeling (bring your own gear) and kayaking (kayaks are available for rent).
wave cut platforms onse islas

natural pool in onse islas

BAUNG-BAUNG
Personally, I think this island has the best waters for swimming. Clean and cool and not at all rocky, it has the same teal-and-cerulean gradient as the rest of the islands. It also has a trail that leads to a view of nearby Bisaya-Bisaya island.
trekking baung baung island



onse islas trekking

BUH-BUH
This island is one of the few inhabited ones. It is meant to showcase the rich culture of the Sama Banguingui. If I’m not mistaken, the LGU is planning to set up a small museum here. Buh-Buh island can be distinguished by the mosque just a few strides from the shore.
sama banguingui zamboanga

SIROMMON
With a name compounded from the English words “sea, room, and moon”, this island possesses the same gleaming, chalky sands of its neighbors as well as a swirl of sandbar dotted by seastars. There is also a short trail that leads to the other side of the island where a treehouse, a wooden gazebo, and a grove of trees for hammocks can be found. Because of the facilities like cottages, kitchen, restrooms –  simple as they are – this island is also the spot to have lunch.

sirromon island sandbar
Photo courtesy of Glen of Escape Manila





Second day in Zamboanga City was spent exploring three of eleven islands in the villages of Panubigan and Dita. All three islands’ shores are decorated with the city’s trademark vibrant vinta sails, creating a beautiful contrast against sand, sea, and sky. ⛵️☀️✨🌊🏝 . More of the “Once Islas” soon on Celineism.com . 📷 @karasantos . #OnceAgainZamPen #ZamboHermosaFest #TPBGovPH #ItsMoreFunInThePhilippines #awesomeglobe #grammerworld #discoverglobe #onseislas #wonderfulplaces #ourdailyplanet #bestplaces_togo #guardiancities #travelersnotebook #iamatraveler #worldmastershotz #igpodium_mag #infinity_shotz #igersmood #superhubs #thebest_capture #theimaged #earthfocus #unlimitedparadise #resourcetravel #heatercentral #passportready #beautifuldestinations #natgeotravel #wanderlust
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OTHER ISLANDS
The other islands in the group are Simaddang, Sallangan, Lambang-Lambang, Baguias, Panganak, Kabugan, and Lampingin.
HOW TO BOOK A TRIP TO ONSE ISLAS
Visitors must reserve a slot before going to Onse Islas. Follow the procedure below to book your trip:

Through the Zamboanga City Tourism Office, reserve and book your slot
You must fill up three (3) copies of “Form A”
Zamboanga City Tourism Office
Paseo del Mar
8AM to 5AM, Monday to Friday
(062) 975 6341
asiaslatincitytourism@yahoo.com

Proceed to the official entry point in Brgy. Panubigan (directions below)
Present reservation slip, settle fees, and attend the pre-tour briefing at the baranggay hall

Secure a local guide and proceed to the port
Board the assigned ferry

Depart Onse Islas via Brgy. Panubigan no later than 3PM



FEES
(per pax unless otherwise stated)
Entrance Fee – Php100
Environmental Fee – Php100
Ferry (round trip, group rate; maximum of 15 pax) – Php2,500
Local Guide (Required; recommended 1 guide per 5 people) – Php300
Kayak Rental (Bisaya-bisaya) – Php300/hour, good for two
Cottage Rental – Php150/day

THINGS TO REMEMBER
- Guest MUST book with the City Tourism Office prior to coming to the island. Walk-in guests will not be entertained. This is because the islands follow a carrying capacity – maximum number of tourists allowed per day – of 200 guests.
- The islands welcome guests everyday EXCEPT Friday, from 7AM to 3PM
- No overnight stays
- Prepare your food beforehand. Bring utensils. Pre-cooked pork dishes are allowed, but whole lechon (roast pig) and grilling of pork are a no-no. This is in respect of the local culture.
- Wear modest swimwear.
- No pets allowed.
- It’s highly recommended to bring your trash with you back to the mainland, but there are designated disposal facilities in each island. Please dispose of your garbage properly. (READ: 8 Basic Etiquette Rules Every Modern Traveler Should Know)

HOW TO GET TO ONSE ISLAS
To get to Brgy Panubigan, take a van bound for Brgy. Curuan at the van terminal in Tomas Claudio cor Saavedra Sts., then alight at the Panubigan Crossing. Fare is Php60. Here, habal-habal motorcycles can take you to the baranggay hall for Php20. Alternatively, you may reach the crossing by getting on a bus at the Zamboanga City Integrated Bus Terminal for Php50. Travel time is about an hour from the city proper. The Tourism Office could also arrange private cars for you and your group should you prefer it.

For a hassle-free trip, you may also contact iTravel Tourist Lane. This travel agency specializes in tours around Zamboanga.

Have you been to Onse Islas? How was your visit?


5 Pasalubong Ideas From Zamboanga City

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Sometimes, we get so enamored of a place that we go so far as to want to take home a bit of it. And while there are many intangible ways that we could carry a piece of a place with us, there come times that we prefer something substantial like, say, a bracelet or a keychain – the quintessential souvenirs – but for a place like Zamboanga City, where multiculturalism is the prevailing theme, there is, of course, a whole lot more fascinating choices. Here are five of them.

1. Alavar Sauce
An heirloom recipe concocted by Ma. Teresa Camins Alavar, this aromatic and indulgent sauce with a coco milk base runs like a river system across the Zamboangeño culinary landscape. It is said to elevate almost anything, but it's best paired with the city's famous curacha (spanner crabs).

You may get a packet of this delectable sauce from Alavar Seafood Restaurant along Don Alfaro Street.

Related Adventure: Guide to Merloquet Falls

2. Yakan Weaves
Zamboanga City is home to many indigenous peoples, one of which is the Yakan – one of the 13 Moro ethnolinguistic groups in the country. Famed for their loomwork, the Yakan produces a highly valued weave with the same name. Yakan fabrics go as much as Php4,500 per meter and takes more than a week to complete! If you're into textile, these intricate pieces would be a great addition to your collection.



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where to buy pasalubong in zamboanga

Get your Yakan straight from the source at the Yakan Weaving Village.


3. Yakan Footwear
One way the Yakans are making sure that the art of weaving lives on is by putting a commercial value to it, creating both livelihood and showcase of culture. While the yakan cloth itself commands a high price, modern tastes dictate it be more wearable and versatile, and so, here comes yakan clothing. Shoes are, perhaps, the best vessels for the merging of traditional and contemporary, and you can easily find beautiful pairs in Zamboanga City.
yakan shoes

I personally recommend Habing Zamboanga for wearable Yakan pieces and other woven clothing.

4. Malaysian Goods
Since Zamboanga City is near Malaysia, a good amount of Malaysian goods reaches the former's shores regularly. Imported coffee, chocolates, White Rabbit candy (with the edible wrapper), noodles, and canned goods can be purchased here for cheap.
malaysian products zamboanga city

white rabbit edible wrapper

Get your Malaysian haul over at the Barter Trade Center in Canelar.


5. Lechon
Yep, you read that right! Zamboanga City has a thriving "lechon culture". In fact, it is so prevalent that an annual lechon fiesta called the Asao Festival is held here. If you simply can't get enough of roast pig, count on Zamboanga to get you your fix.
zamboanga city abattoir

Choose from the many lechon stalls along Brgys. Sta Maria, and Tetuan.


BONUS: Pangase Wine
To get this pasalubong, you need to venture out of the city as this liquor is actually a product of Siayan, Zamboanga del Norte. Made of cassava, rice, and a whole bunch of herbs (I think it's around 60 types), the Pangase Wine is a traditional drink of the Buug Subanen tribe. It is fermented in a ceramic jar for a minimum of three months. The wine is traditionally served to nobility and during celebrations like weddings and tribal meetings. A bottle costs Php320, and it's one of the most interesting beverages you'll ever taste.
pangase wine

Get a bottle (or two) from the Siayan Food Industry, Sitio Calacas, Poblacion, Siayan, Zamboanga del Norte. Or you may contact Ms. Ma. Sheila D. Yee at +63 950 221 2533 or  at yrsheil@yahoo.com.

What's the best pasalubong you've gotten?


Flying From Clark Airport Made Easier with Victory Liner's P2P Premium Bus Service

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p2p bus cubao to clark

Confession time: I haven't really considered getting flights to and from Clark.

I thought, "Commuting to NAIA is bad enough. Why would I submit myself to even more commuting?" Never mind the fact that Clark flights are relatively cheaper compared to those in NAIA, plus more and more routes are opening up — to me, it was just too far.
Turns out, one of the country's forerunner bus lines offers a comfortable, significantly less-hassle way to get to Clark. My friends and I were able to try it and it was a complete game-changer.
Marky of Nomadic Experiences, Kara of Travel Up, Celine of Celineism (Me), Moe of Our Awesome Planet, and Potpot of Travel Trilogy

Say hello to Victory Liner's P2P Premium Bus Service.
victory liner p2p bus to clark



Launched March 2018, the point-to-point service functions similar to a shuttle to and fro Clark Airport and Subic, and Clark Airport and Dagupan

Related Adventure: Things To Do in Subic

BENEFITS OF THE P2P BUS SERVICE
Taking the P2P Bus would certainly be quicker than your average commuter bus because there are less stops. The travel time which is usually five hours could be cut down to just three hours (that's if you're coming from Cubao). It will also be cheaper compared to renting a van or hailing a cab or Grab.

It's also reliable because, whether or not, there are passengers on-board, the P2P bus will leave on time. The service follows a strict schedule and there is no minimum capacity for a trip.
p2p bus clark

It's also a great way to get around Clark, and the Subic Freeport Area — cheaper and more convenient than cabs, and even jeepneys. And oh, the bus also has FREE Wi-Fi,

P2P BUS STOPS
Some of the service's regular stops and stations include the Mabalacat Bus Terminal in Pampanga, Clark Airport, Harbor Point Mall in Subic, Dinalupihan Exit in Bataan, and the Tarlac Bus Terminal — a great option for those heading to Baguio. If you live anywhere near these places, the P2P Bus would be ideal if you need to get to Clark Airport.
clark airport departure area

If you're coming from Manila or in Rizal like me, the easiest way would be to take a regular bus from either of Victory Liner's terminals in Pasay or Cubao to Dau in Pampanga. You'll get off at the Mabalacat Terminal where you then can get on the P2P Bus.

Related Adventure: Mariveles, Bataan Travel Guide

P2P BUS FARE AND SCHEDULE
One way fare starts at P155 per person. Earliest bus available is at 3AM while the latest is at 10:30PM. The last trip may be adjusted in case flights are delayed. The P2P Service is available everyday, even on weekends and holidays. See below for the complete fare and schedule matrix.


victory liner p2p bus fare

victory liner clark p2p bus schedule

OTHER DETAILS
For more information, head over to Victory Liner's Official Website, and Facebook Page. Or call Victory Liner's Call Center at +63 998 591 5102 / +63 917 842 5463 / +63 2 842 8679. Or email them at vlihotline@victoryliner.com.

So, hope to catch you in one of the P2P trips!



Make Your CR Break Meaningful with PTT’s Restroom 20

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If we are to pile all the coins I’ve spent on toilet stops, I’m pretty sure it could cover – at the very least – a roundtrip ticket to Catanduanes. I wish I could tell you I’m exaggerating, but with how frequent I travel plus the fact that I think I might’ve early onset incontinence, my Roadside Relief Budget is kind of a big deal.

Now I don’t mind it, really. I take my renal and urinary well-being seriously, but sometimes, I can’t help but feel ripped off. You know what I’m talking about: you pay five pesos, and you don’t even get a proper tabo.

It’s a hit-and-miss, toilet stops. But such is life.



I hang in there, however, for I know there will come a time when I will happen upon The Toilet. The Mother of all Roadside Restrooms. The Restroom of All Restrooms.

Related Adventure: Things to Do in Subic Bay

This is larger than our apartment,” I remarked (with a tinge of harmless bitterness) upon setting foot at PTT’s renowned Restroom 20.

Furnished with a lime green sofa, a gray couch, and a couple of accent chairs, the place felt more like a hotel lounge than a restroom. Each “cubicle” affords a sort of al fresco toilet experience – to one side is a glass wall that looks out into a covey of house plants. There are bidets. The place has its own doorman. A clean, floral aroma wafts in the air. This place could comfortably house a family of four. When can I move in?
toilet in sctex

best public toilets

I digress.

Related Adventure: Alabat, Quezon Travel Guide

Restroom 20 is a concept adopted from PTT’s home country Thailand. The idea is that patrons are offered a luxurious (bordering on over-the-top) restroom for a 20-peso fee. Yep, that’s a little much, but before you burst your bladder, you should know that the fees collected are directly given to partner charities and communities. For 20 pesos, you get to pee (or poo) comfortably and in style, and you get to also further worthy causes.
restroom 20 sctex


At the moment, PTT has two Restroom 20s in the country. The first one’s in Lucena City in Quezon. Within the first month of its launch, it was able to raise P100,000 for its partner “Natatanging Sektor ng May Kapansanan sa Lungsod ng Lucena, Inc.” – an organization that promotes and champions PWD welfare.

The second one, the one I was able to visit, is located along the Subic-Clark-Tarlac Expressway (SCTEX). It’s in the largest PTT Station to date which has all sorts of amenities like a minipark and a coffee shop called Cafe Amazon. Oh, and the Restroom 20 here is entirely solar-powered.


solar powered toilet tarlac

largest ptt station philippines 

Should you not have 20 pesos allotted for your bladder break, fret not. The abovementioned PTT stations have an equally-clean-but-not-as-luxurious restroom guests can use for free.

Really, though: if we can splurge on things like clothes and shoes, what’s 20 pesos for charity?
Here's a slightly related photo of Kara of Travel Up, Me, Astrid of The Poor Traveler, and Mujee of Eats in the Philippines

Where’s the most luxurious toilet you’ve ever been?


4 Things To Do Around Clark Freeport Zone

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Let me be honest: the whole “Clark” thing got me so confused that I almost didn’t write this article. See, I thought Clark was a town in Pampanga when, in fact, it was the Clark Freeport Zone (CFZ) which spans towns from both Pampanga (Angeles, Mabalacat, and Porac) and Tarlac (Capas, and Bamban). This article is about the Pampanga side of Clark. I guess. No, seriously. I’m still a little disoriented, but let us soldier on.

So OK. If you think the only thing you can find in Clark is a bunch of airplanes (and AFAM – yep, I went there, sorry), then you are not alone. Well, turns out, there’s a whole lot more to do in this former US Air Base. Here are some of them.

1. Take a Stroll Down Memory Lane in Angeles City’s Heritage Park
The origins of Angeles City’s tourism program is one we can all learn from. It started with an article detailing how “ugly” Angeles City is. This piece spread like wildfire among the local community and, understandably, bothered a lot of its residents. Concerned stakeholders from different industries started holding meetings discussing what to do to “clean up” the city’s reputation. These gatherings eventually spawned the local tourism council. Later on, plans for a heritage site were put in motion. 
angeles city church

I personally consider the city’s Heritage Park a modern feat. As with all towns in the country, unsightly electrical cables cross-hatched the airscape – not really conducive to cultural and architectural appreciation. In 2011, the local government reached out to cable, telco, and electric companies. A year later, meetings were taking place, and in June 2014, the whole Plaza was free of wires. The lines have been rerouted, affording unobstructed views of key structures like the century-old Holy Rosary Parish– cited as one of the most important cultural landmarks by the National Museum.


Another highlight of the park is the Museo ng Kasaysayan ng Panlipunan ng Pilipinas, more popularly known as the Pamintuan Mansion. The mansion was built by a couple of local elites as a gift to their son. Interestingly, General Antonio Luna and General Arthur MacArthur also held office here in 1899. But aside from its historical significance, the mansion also houses some of the grandest cultural pieces as well as architectural features inherent to the period. It is also the highest structure in the area so the view from its rooftop is nothing short of panoramic.
moseo ng kasaysayan ng panlipunan ng pilipinas

angeles city heritage park

highest structure in angeles city

pamintuan mansion pampanga

Furthermore, the city’s Library is also being renovated to include a theater that will house regular cultural performances. 

For more information about the Angeles City Heritage Park, get in touch with Angeles City Tourism Officer Ms. Joy Cruz at +63 916 613 6703.

GETTING THERE
There are Victory Liner buses that ply the Manila-Clark route. Fare is about Php300, one way, and travel time is about three hours. Victory Liner has terminals in Cubao, and Pasay.



2. Get to Know the Ways of the Land at Tibby’s Farm
“The future of this country is not in the cities, but in the heart of the countryside” is the cornerstone on which Atty. Angelo Valencia built Tibby’s Farm. The EAT (Education, Accomodation, and Tourism) Facility in Angeles promotes responsible and sustainable agriculture through fostering cooperation and inclusive growth.
tibby's farm pampanga

The idyllic farm is no-fuss. Mostly simple, open-air structures influenced by the owner’s travels to different parts of the country. The main dining hall is inspired by a traditional Tausug dwelling, and bits of indigenous paraphernalia are tucked in nooks and crannies. There is also the in-house aquaponic facility, the organic garden with its semi-automated irrigation system, and the mushroom cultivation “darkroom”.
sustainable farming pampanga

aquaponic farm clark pampanga

tibbys farm clark pampanga


Related Adventure: EDL Farmhouse in Tarlac

Primarily, Tibby’s Farm is an educational venue where groups and individuals can learn about organic farming. Here, they are taught what kind of crops to plant, linked to possible customers and other resources, and are provided training on how to make their properties sustainable. On top of this, the place offers accommodations and farm-to-table dining.

To know more about Tibby’s Farm, you may contact Atty. Angelo Valencia at +63 917 888 8387.

GETTING THERE
Ride a Victory Liner Bus from either Cubao or Pasay to the Dau-Mabalacat Bus Terminal. If you go on a weekday, you need to do two jeepney rides from here. One is to the Clark Main Gate then to Angeles City proper. On a weekend, you can ride a jeepney straight to the city proper from the Dau Bus Terminal. When you're on the jeepney to the proper, tell the driver to drop you off at Nepo Mart. Hail a tricycle to Tibby's Farm from here.



3. Have an Amazing Waterfun at Aqua Planet
In this age of social media, the fewer the pictures, the more fun you had. This was exactly the case when I went to Aqua Planet – the largest water park in the Philippines. It was Seven Seas all over again. I took six photos (all, save for one, are garbage – thank goodness for Potpot and Mac), said fuck it, then raced after my friends to the Octopus Racers aka Rainbow Slide.
aqua planet attractions
Photo by Potpot Pinili of Travel Trilogy

water parks in the philippines

Aqua Planet took some time off to further refine their facilities and services. Now, they’re back with a bigger manpower, more food concessionaires, and better facilities. I also love the fact that instead of paper tickets/wristbands, they got these reusable RFID bracelets that you can load with money to use for in-park purchases. You have to return them when you leave the park, but that means there’s less trash generated!
aqua planet rfid tags

aqua planet wave pool

tornado water slide

Summer or not, I highly recommend a visit here. Get on the numerous water slides or just laze away along the “river”. It’s a great bonding experience for both family and friends.


Here are the walk-in rates of Aqua Planet:
The rates entitle guests to an All-Day Unlimited access to the park’s attractions. 
Weekday Rates
- Below 4 feet - Php740
- 4 feet and above - Php950
Weekend Rates
- Below 4 feet - Php980
- 4 feet and above - Php1180 

Tickets are available at the gates, and also at Klook.

Cabana rentals are between Php3,000 (good fo 15 pax) to Php5,000 (good for 25 pax). There are also tables and chairs with umbrellas around the water park that are free to use. For lockers, there is a Php200 rental fee.

Aqua Planet is open everyday from 9AM to 5PM. For more information, check out Aqua Planet’s website

GETTING THERE
There are Victory Liner buses from Cubao and Pasay going to the Dau-Mabalacat Bus Terminal. From here, ride a Dau-SM-Main Gate jeepney to Bayanihan Terminal where you can get on a Blue Jeep that brings you straight to Aqua Planet. Alternatively, you may take a bus to Angeles/Marquee Bus Terminal, then board a jeepney to SM Clark-Main Gate. Here, you can get on the Blue Jeep to Aqua Planet.



4. Spend a Night Under Starry Skies at El Kabayo Stables
Have you always wanted to try out camping but couldn’t really deal with being deprived of modern comforts? Well, you can get the best of both worlds at El Kabayo Stables. 
el kabayo glamping

The place best known for its Western-themed facilities and horseback-riding now offers glamping aka "glamorous camping"! The overnight set-up includes dinner and breakfast, a Grazing Table in collaboration with Amante Ribs and Steaks, archery by Oculus Sport, bonfire with marshmallows, horseback and carriage rides, tents with comfortable amenities (mattresses, pillows, blankets, toiletries), and outdoor toilets and showers.
archery in clark

el kabayo horseback riding

horsedrawn carriage clark

The catch is there needs to be a minimum of 10 people to avail this package. It’s perfect for family bonding, barkada hangouts, and corporate team-buildings. El Kabayo is willing to customize the set-up based on the requirements of your group, but be sure to book at least ONE WEEK BEFORE your preferred date for ample prep time. 

Rates are Php4500 for adults, Kids are Php2500, and two-year-olds and below are free. Again, you must be 10 or more in your group to avail this service. If there’s less than 10 people in your group, you still must pay the total rate for 10 pax. 

For more information, get in touch with Ms. Rina Lao at +63 917 834 4055 or visit El Kabayo Stables’ website

GETTING THERE
From Cubao or Pasay, take a Victory Liner bus to the Dau-Mabalacat Bus Terminal. From here, get on a bus bound for SM Clark. Get off at the Clark Main Gate Jeepney Terminal. Take a jeepney from the "Route 3" terminal, and ask the driver/conductor to drop you off at the Clark Picnic Grounds. El Kabayo Stables is near the end of this route.

This is part of Lakbay Norte 8 - a media tour organized by the North Philippines Visitors Bureau (NPVB). Other photos by Mac Dillera via NPVB.


What other places in Clark would you recommend?

Two Unique Activities to Try in Subic Bay

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Subic, to me, had always meant duty-free. Shopping. Imported goods. Seaplanes (for some reason). And AFAMs (yep, I went there again. Can’t help it. Sorry). Yet amid retail black holes and fieldtrip destinations, a couple of out-of-the-ordinary activities exists in the freeport zone.

SAIL INTO THE SUNSET
Jagged outlines of the Zambales Mountain Range, and a scattering of cargo ships make up part of the Subic Bay landscape. That sounds like a strange combination, but when the gleam of the golden hour gilds the placid water, everything turns majestic.
subic yacht club

Be in the thick of it all by boarding a vessel from Subic Sailing Club.

You have a choice among yachts, sailboats, speedboats, jet skis, and kayaks. If you want to go the traditional route, paraws (double outrigger sailboat) are also available for rent.
subic sailing club

The rates will, admittedly, put a huge dent in your pocket – yacht rental starts at Php40,000. But if you have the budget and are looking for a different way to see Subic Bay, then maybe consider this.

Related Adventure: DIY Guide to Subic Bay 

Aside from rentals, the Subic Sailing Club also organizes boat tours to nearby coves like Nagsasa, and Talisayen. Then there’s the Yacht Parties held every summer.
subic bay sailboats yachts

Boat races, like Regatta, are also put together by the club. Should you want to learn how to hoist a mast and make like a sailor, sailing lessons are also offered here.
subic bay sailing club

For more information, follow the Subic Sailing Club on Facebook. Or send an inquiry on their website.


GO ON A MAD HIKE
Subic, admirably, despite donning a modern facade, manages to retain a chunk of its natural heritage. Right on the border to Bataan is a tract of forest the indigenous Aetas call home. Within it is a hiking trail known as El Kabayo.
tribes and treks subic

MAD (Make a Difference) Travel had extended its Tribes and Treks program to this side of Subic Bay. Working with members of the Pastolan tribe, the El Kabayo Trail showcases both culture and nature.

The path is relatively easy. Meandering. With gentle inclines. Canopied with soaring trees like Ficus variegata (known locally as tangisang-bayawak), Parkia javanica (cupang for the non-tree nerd), and Lagerstroemia speciosa (now I’m just showing off – that’s banaba), the trail remains cool even in high noon. Patches of bamboo copses punctuate the forest, tapering into picturesque arches that cast a subtle emerald tinge.
mad travel hiking subic

trails in subic bay

Related Adventure: DIY Hiking Guides

Leading the way through this trail are men of the Pastolan tribe. They mutter tree names with so much familiarity, it’s almost as if they’re old friends. Watervines, from which trekkers could “drink”, are picked out with ease from thickets of shrubs.
subic bay aeta tribe

pastolan tribe aeta

Knowledge of plants are shared all throughout, all the way to a grove where the men demonstrate the famed jungle survival skills the Aetas are known for. Starting from carving utensils from bamboo, the demo ends with the trekkers having attempts at making fire from bamboo stalks and wood dust.


The trail then backtracks before taking a different turn towards the cascade with the same name. It’s a nice idea to swim here if you have enough time.
waterfalls in subic

A lunch prepared by Pastolan women are then served back at the jump-off. After, they share their practice of using traditional herbal medicines, even offering plant cuttings for one to take home.

Speaking of take-homes, woven bracelets made by the tribefolks are also for sale.
unique pasalubong from subic

Should you be interested in this activity, you may head over to Mad Travel’s website or Facebook page.


What other unique things have you tried in Subic?


Subic Accommodations | Rest Your Head (and Your Handlebars) at Le Charme

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le charme swimming pool

Spent from a day of trekking along the El Kabayo trail, our Lakbay Norte 8 crew proceeded for check in. The group was separated boys vs. girls, and we, being the superior gender (fight me) were billeted in this charming piece of comfort at the heart of Subic Bay.

THE PLACE
Initially meant to be a furniture store, one wouldn't expect much from the facade – it was just a plain block of building tucked right at a far end of a street. The lobby and front desk were relatively unassuming. The only thing that caught my eye was a couple of bicycles hanging on one corner. Turns out, Le Charme is bike-friendly. But more on that later.


hotel with bikes subic

THE ROOM
I share a Deluxe Twin Room with Astrid of The Poor Traveler, and Kara of Travel Up. It had, obviously, two beds, and insanely spacious – I was able to sneak in a couple of Sun Salutations while Kara was in the bathroom and Astrid was fixing her things.
le charme rooms

Related Adventure: Things to Do in Clark

There's a desk, an accent chair, a wardrobe, a mini fridge – the works. The most interesting feature in that room (and all of Le Charme's rooms), however, was the bike mount on one wall. There's a bicycle rack outside, in the hallway, but you apparently can take your bikes inside your room with problem. How cool is that?
le charme deluxe twin room

bike inside hotel rooms

The bathroom was also very spacious. Adorned in a clean, sleek all-white, it had a tub on one side, a shower on the other. What I like very much is that the toiletries are not in those wasteful tiny container but in refillable containers. You go, Le Charme! #Ecohero
le charme room amenities

le charme subic bathroom

hotel with refillable toiletries

Wi-Fi is also very stable inside our room. Aaaaand, there is a large window which – as you know – I'm a total sucker for. Natural light through and through!

Check out Le Charme's room rates here.

THE AMENITIES
Just to reiterate: Le Charme is bike-friendly, meaning you can bring your bicycles with you inside the hotel, and even in your room. There are also several bicycles for rent. There is a fitness center, a spa, a swimming pool up in the roofdeck, conference rooms, and a KTV room. There is also The Cube which is a recreation center that offers VR (virtual reality) immersion games.
le charme subic spa

le charmed rooftop swimming pool

Related Adventure: DIY Guide to Subic

As for dining options, Le Charme has plenty. There's Teppan 101– the only Asian-fusion restaurant in Subic, Naicha for milk tea enthusiasts, and Mi Tapas for a Spanish fanfare.

THE SERVICE
Service at Le Charme is top-notch. I dropped my crescent moon pendant in the elevator gap and the staff was able to retrieve it. They also extended their spa and fitness center hours so my companions could try it out. 


BOTTOMLINE
Le Charme was, hands down, the best hotel I stayed at during Lakbay Norte 8 – a media familiarization trip organized by the North Philippines Visitors Bureau. Plus points for being bike-friendly. Even more plus points for having refillable toiletries – a seemingly tiny thing but the environment, I'm sure, approves.

Le Charme Suites Subic
La Terraza Building, Subic Bay Freeport Zone, Olongapo
Email: salesandmarketing@lecharmehotels.com / frontoffice@lecharmehotels.com 
Mobile No.: +63 915 933 8113
Tel. No.: (047) 250 3333

I Am Not Ralph (Or Maybe I Am)

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“People are the worst,” I sniff, burrowing myself in pillows.

I was angry and sad and ashamed from crying, but the load I was carrying all morning was weighing me down. I needed to break so I could put it away.

“Not always,” my husband Dennis tells me tenderly. “And not all people.”

He digs through the mound of pillows and finds me curled into a tight ball, trying to make my body collapse unto itself. He reaches for my hands, which are clasped tightly into fists, and tries hard to unclench it.

But my nails are dull and so no blood is drawn. My palms are unscathed.

I fight him. Roughly. With intention to hurt. The storm inside me is aching to ravage, and so I lash out; throwing the fists he was trying to unclench, blindly, in utter fury.

Kakampi mo ‘ko,” he pleads, grabbing my wrists and pinning me with his body.

The tears start falling again.

Hindi ako si Ralph!” I say, over and over again.

To understand the gravity of this statement, we had to go back to the night before. We'd just seen Ralph Breaks the Internet– the sequel to the Disney hit Wreck-it Ralph. In this installment, the titular character released an “insecurity virus” within an online game, hoping to make the game boring for his bestfriend kid-racer Vanellope who wanted to make said game her new home. But the virus ”escaped” into the Internet, and recognized Ralph as a weakness. It then proceeded to “clone” him. These Ralph-duplicates, being “insecure, clingy, and self-destructive”, wreaked havoc to the World Wide Web, resulting into the entire Internet shutting down. Basically, Ralph was a crappy, crappy friend.

The day after seeing that movie, I got into an ugly mood. Some of my friends were supposed to come over, but shit happened so I decided to cancel.

By “shit” I meant me. I happened. 

I’d laid out a clear plan for that day. I wanted to be extra and different. Spice things up a bit.
And I’d told my friends about it, sent them an invitation detailing what was going to happen. For some reason, (and there’s good a chance it’s just me being shitty), I got under the impression that they were up for it. And so I was thrilled.

The same night we watched Ralph, these same friends started yakking about the details of my invitation, saying they had no time for it. I snapped and decided to just drop everything.

Since I had allotted that particular day for that event – I was so excited to cook for them – and it has now gone down the drain (no thanks to me), I couldn’t help but be mopey.

In all fairness, some insisted we keep to our plans. I was just really stubborn. And offended. And these two make for the worst party cocktail in history. I would rather not.

So I spent all morning brooding. Contemplating. Analyzing. Why was I so offended? Why was I angry? I was sad, too. And disappointed. Have I done the worst thing I could possibly do – ask too much?

I try never to ask for anything. Very, very rarely do I demand anything from anyone. I continually delay asking for help. I taught myself to be handy around the house (and in life in general) so I would never have to ask (or pay) anyone to do things for me. I suppose I feel that people should indulge me on the rare occasion that I play the Favor Card. 

Huh. Look at that. I am a millennial after all. Entitled little bitch. 

But, see, it wasn’t the fact that they didn’t want to do what I asked that made me moody. It was the fact that I was made to believe that they were going to go along with it. 

It would’ve been fine if they didn’t want to do it. I wish they'd told me instead of beating around the bush and giving me crap for “assigning them homework”. I’m normally petty, but I recognize when things are too much. When I am too much.

This is why was I so riled up. I expected something...something good.

And it’s been a long time since I did.

Growing up, I had so much expectations. I expected undivided attention from my parents. I expected validation from school. I expected my friends to be loyal. I expected my crushes to like me back. Even when these expectations were unmet, I soldiered on. I was idealistic. And so even well into adulthood, I continued to expect.

I expected a lot from this world. From this life. From the people around me. From my existence. And because I was also a romantic, I tried embodying my expectations. I had this belief that if I must demand something, I must also be able to give it. It wasn’t long that I came to find that this way –how I operate – is stupid. Do unto others what you want others to do unto you? Bullshit. The truth is, people will hurt you no matter what. Life is unfair. The world is full of shit. And it is incredibly, perpetually, exhausting to live.

Mind you, I still expect. But now, I expect the worst. This way, anything mildly good is impressive. I got so used to this that when people treat me well, I get suspicious.

But over the years, I have surrounded myself with enough good people that I’m no longer so extreme. I was made to feel like I’m worth something, like I matter. Still, when friends give me thoughtful gifts, I try hard not to burst into tears. When people show up for me, I feel euphoric. What're you gonna do: sabik sa kaibigan, sabik sa pagmamahal.

I got so used to having friends who show up for me, who treat me fair, that I got stupid again. I allowed myself to expect good things. And then it turned out that was too much. I was being too much. I’d become a bother. And, I realize now, that that is my greatest fear. I’d rather be dead than be a bother. That sounds like I’m overreacting, but that’s what happens when “second-best” and “not a priority” were your defaults for more than half of your life. Lesson learned: never ask anything from anyone. Ever. Again.

If you think arriving at this realization did anything to bolster my mood, you are wrong. What did I tell you? Expect nothing. In fact, I became even more broody. Grumpy. I didn’t want to eat. I didn’t want to move. I just wanted to lie down. It’s exhausting, this life.

Now, if there was one thing my husband hates about me, it’s my tendency to miss my meals when I’m unhinged. He gets agitated and overbearing. I know it’s coming from a good place and it’s sweet but I hate that he finds it hard to let me be.

Papuntahin ko na sila,” he says it like a threat.

Ayoko!” I was lying on the couch, burying my face into the backrest.

Eh kesa sa ganyan ka. Para kang si Ralph.”

I felt my blood rush to my head. This angered me so much. I wasn’t being insecure, clingy, or self-destructive! What the fuck?! I just wanted to be left alone. I was so mad. I stomped up our bed and curled into a ball, clenching my jaws and my fists. I started to cry and did another thing I haven’t done in a while: I harmed myself. Or at least I tried.

My nails were trimmed. There wasn’t any pain.

Before I know it, my husband had me under him, trying to calm me down.

Hindi ako si Ralph,” I tell him again. I wanted to sound aggressive, but it came out pitiful.

Hindi nga. Mali ako. Sorry,” he coos, wiping tears from my cheeks. 

It took a while for all the crying to stop. I was exhausted. People are exhausting. I’m exhausting. I remember wishing for everything to end soon. All this is getting old.

And looking back, maybe Dennis was right. Maybe I am Ralph. I am insecure. I am clingy. And I’m obviously self-destructive.

Maybe I am a bad friend. 

Maybe I’d be better off as a tree.

Photo by Tophee Marquez

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